by Anna Holton-Dean
As Christmas approaches, thoughts turn to gift giving. What special gift would light up her eyes? What would knock his socks off? Sometimes the answer is a puppy or a kitty. Before committing to such a demanding, yet loving gift, consider this list found on Pinterest, the online pin board. It’s important to look past the moment of jubilation, to the point when responsibility trumps cuteness. Can she or he handle this new responsibility?
I’m not sure where the following list originated, but it’s truthful, moving and definitely something to consider if a living, breathing gift might cross your mind. Gifts aside, it’s applicable all year long for anyone who is contemplating bringing a pet into his or her home.
Imagine your future best friend saying these words to you.
1. My life is likely to last 10 to 15 years. Any separation from you will be painful; remember that before you get me.
2. Give me time to understand what you want of me.
3. Place your trust in me; it is crucial to my well being.
4. Do not be angry at me for long, and do not lock me up as punishment.
5. You have your work, your entertainment, and your friends. I only have you.
6. Talk to me sometimes. Even if I don’t understand your words, I understand your voice when it is speaking to me.
7. Be aware that how ever you treat me, I will never forget.
8. Remember before you hit me that I have teeth that could easily hurt you, but I choose not to bite you because I love you.
9. Before you scold me for being uncooperative, obstinate, or lazy, ask yourself if something might be bothering me. Perhaps I might not be getting the right food, or I have been out to long, or my heart is getting too old and weak.
10. Take care of me when I get old; you too will grow old. Go with me on difficult journeys. Never say, “I cannot bear to watch,” or “Let it happen in my absence.” Everything is easier for me if you are there, even my death. Remember that I love you.
If after reading this, you still feel your gift recipient is up for the responsibility, go for it! So many animals need a forever home right here in our area, and they have so much love they are ready to give. I guarantee they will make it worth your while. And don’t forget the big red bow!
